Dating too long before marriage

30-Aug-2017 07:54

I would never have been able to make that kind of decision in my 20's.

Just be sure that both of you are completely yourselves all the time.

We knew we wanted to be together within the first year. But my mother always said don't even consider marrying someone until you've had at least 3 fights/arguments with them.

When you're first dating, everyone's on their best behavior.

:) Monday, April 14, 2008, PM I've been dating my bf for almost 7 yrs now. Monday, April 14, 2008, PM Well let's see I have been married and divorced twice i am now engaged for 3 years now lol..first I met him when I was 16 a few weeks before my 17 birthday..was 26 2 weks before his 27 ..anyway I ended up finding out I was pregnant on my 18 birthday had a daughter then 14 months later had another daughter.this is now like 3 years..

got married when my youngest was three or so this is 6-7 years then had a son 8 months after our wedding was pg didnt know.divorced a little after a year ...

We knew by 6 weeks, got engaged after 9 months, married the following year.

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We knew with in a couple of months, though, that we wanted to get married. We will celebrate our 11th wedding anniversary this June. We probably would have married sooner, but since we were both students we needed to wait til after graduation or it would have adversely affected student aid.My first husband and I dated 7 yrs then married and we never saw our 2nd wedding annv. He's 35 and I'm 24 so I am too young to rush it and he is past the point where there is any point in rushing it.Who cares how long you are engaged, as long as you give it some time before you are actually married. Monday, April 14, 2008, AM We met each other at an insanely busy time in our lives, never even had the chance to go on a date til I moved in with him (3 months after we met - it was supposed to be a temp situation) and I'd say right about 4 or 5 months after we met, we realized we were actually married in our hearts regardless of how little we had actually 'dated'.Now met a guy dated for 4 months moved in together...a little over a year later he asked me to marry him we have been engaged for 3 years..(with about 3 months broke-up).. I will not have anymore kids my youngest is now almost 5 (next month) and I have no desire to go back lol.I got my tubes tied last year.sure when or if we will ever get married I love him with all my heart but we do have our problems and there are some changes I need to see before I would tie the knot again..after being through two horrible marragies I'm not sure if I can stand the chance of another failed one..it's kinda like "three strikes your out" and I only have one left..Monday, April 14, 2008, PM I knew from the first day I met him that he was the man I would marry.

We knew with in a couple of months, though, that we wanted to get married. We will celebrate our 11th wedding anniversary this June. We probably would have married sooner, but since we were both students we needed to wait til after graduation or it would have adversely affected student aid.My first husband and I dated 7 yrs then married and we never saw our 2nd wedding annv. He's 35 and I'm 24 so I am too young to rush it and he is past the point where there is any point in rushing it.Who cares how long you are engaged, as long as you give it some time before you are actually married. Monday, April 14, 2008, AM We met each other at an insanely busy time in our lives, never even had the chance to go on a date til I moved in with him (3 months after we met - it was supposed to be a temp situation) and I'd say right about 4 or 5 months after we met, we realized we were actually married in our hearts regardless of how little we had actually 'dated'.Now met a guy dated for 4 months moved in together...a little over a year later he asked me to marry him we have been engaged for 3 years..(with about 3 months broke-up).. I will not have anymore kids my youngest is now almost 5 (next month) and I have no desire to go back lol.I got my tubes tied last year.sure when or if we will ever get married I love him with all my heart but we do have our problems and there are some changes I need to see before I would tie the knot again..after being through two horrible marragies I'm not sure if I can stand the chance of another failed one..it's kinda like "three strikes your out" and I only have one left..Monday, April 14, 2008, PM I knew from the first day I met him that he was the man I would marry.You need to have it out a few times to see how a person handles conflict and if it goes with how you do as well.